Thursday 20 October 2022

Bittersweet October

Before I continue where I left off, I would like to thank you for your words of encouragement and understanding in your comments on my previous post, which were truly heartwarming. As over the past six and a half years my blog has slowly but surely developed into my journal, you're getting a warts and all account of my life and as I'm a HSP (*) my senses are often working overtime. 

Now, what did we do on Sunday 2 October? Although the day's temperature of about 17°C wasn't too bad, it was cloudy and overcast, and would remain so until late afternoon.

Whatever the weather, it definitely wouldn't have scuppered our plans, as they involved an indoor activity. 

We were happy to learn that our favourite flea market, which in Pre-Covid times provided a bright spot once a month from October to May, was opening its doors again. Admittedly, it had already started up again last year, but due to Covid rearing its ugly head with the Omicron variety, we'd only been twice.



Having been regulars for years we often stop and chat with some of the stallholders and I have received lots of compliments on my outfits over the years. With such high standards to maintain, I'm always going the extra mile, which this time resulted in this rather moody Autumnal combo.

The maxi skirt is vintage, its fabric a heavy, lined Crimplene, in chocolate brown sprinkled with a naive flower print. Its companion, a burgundy flower infused Esprit blouse in a thin jersey fabric, which came to me by way of the charity shops.



The latter also provided the moss green suede belt, green and turquoise long-line necklace and flower brooch. My copper ring with its green stone was found at this very flea market a couple of years back, while the cord blazer, which is from H&M, was another flea market find, picked up at the one held in our street in July 2019.



Our journey took us quite a bit longer than the usual 25 minutes or so due to an endless string of roadworks and diversions, which we should have taken as an omen for the rest of the day. 

Although we were obviously glad to be back and there were plenty of stalls to browse, it felt quite different from our visits in the Before Times.  I couldn't exactly put my finger on it, and no, it wasn't the lack of things on offer.

In the end, we only bought two items, one of which wasn't even for us. Jos's daughter An had been on the lookout for one of those quintessential 1970s fake leather patchwork poufs, so when I spotted this beauty on our friend Tania's stall we bought it for her. 

Before it made its way to An, however, it was put to the test by Dove Cottage's Quality Control departement, a.k.a. Bess! I'm sure An's cats Spookje and Hazel will appreciate it too.




The only purchase I made for myself obviously was a brooch, although it took me until the penultimate aisle to find this cute little celluloid mouse. It's displayed here on an enamelled copper dish which was a flea market find back in 2016. I'm just mentioning this as someone on Instagram thought it was part of the brooch!



The sun, who finally showed her face in the late afternoon on Sunday, continued gracing us with her presence on Monday and Tuesday, bringing balmy temperatures of 18 and 19°C for company.

This was what I was wearing on Monday, although I did dispense with the cardigan as soon as the sun had done away with the single figures morning chill.




My bottle green dress with its blowsy flower print is from the Danish Only label and was a charity shop find in the Autumn of 2021. Hot pink opaques, one of my stretchy belts, a sage green flower corsage and ditto beaded necklace completed my outfit.

You might have noticed that in spite of a plethora of footwear I have been wearing these mock croc ankle boots - or their tall sisters - with nearly every outfit. They're my most comfortable footwear for my back, hip and knees which have been conspiring together in plaguing me. 



On top of that, Tuesday saw the return of my migraine, which nothing seemed to be able to shift. I was feeling quite miserable and only went for a short walk around the block during lunch break even if the weather was gorgeous. 

Thankfully, it was all over by Wednesday. However, contrary to what had been forecasted, the sun had gone AWOL, leaving us with one of those dull grey days quite at odds with the continuing balmy temperatures.



My recently charity shopped dotty blouse from the Belgian Wow To Go label got its first outing. I paired it with the tweedy turquoise skirt I wore to the park in my previous post.

The blue and red dots in my blouse dictated my choice of colour for my accessories, which included a  necklace featuring chunky blue stones, a blue plastic ring and textured belt, and a red vintage brooch. 




In spite of the weather, I did go for a wander in my lunch break during which I was lured into an Outlet shop for CKS, which is another Belgian label. They had an extra 30% off everything and although the clothes were a bit meh, the best offerings being in size XS, I bought a suede belt and a scarf in mustard yellow for a total of € 7.

The belt couldn't have come at a better time, as I was mourning the loss of a similar one with a round buckle, which I'd worn to death.



That evening, our neighbour, who had finally started insulating the wall earlier that week, announced that he was going to put up portable scaffolding in the passageway.  In order to do this, the plant table under the awning outside our back door had to be moved. He also requested that we move the compost bin, which proved to be an impossible task as it was full and therefore top heavy. Instead, he emptied the bin and put the contents into bags, which he dumped in the place our plant table had been, with the now empty compost bin precariously on top.

This is our view until this day. The wall still needs to be rendered and then we can finally put back some of our things until it is ready for painting in the colour of our choice. By which time it will be Spring ...

As an aside, our neighbour looked at us incredulously when we told him the bin would have to be put back and refilled after he was done. Apparently, he'd never heard of such a thing as a compost bin!



On that note, I am skipping Thursday, on which there was nothing to report, nor did we take any outfit photos. 

With my colleague still on sick leave, I once again had to go into work on Friday. 

But what is that strange phenomenon I can see on the horizon? It's an afternoon off followed by the weekend!

We'd had a hellish commute both in the morning and again when Jos picked me up at 1 pm, but instead of going straight home we stopped at the charity shop in our village.




Ms. Sunshine had rejoined us by now and the mercury was still flitting around 17°C, which allowed me to wear this long-sleeved yet lightweight vintage dress. With its white and burgundy feathery print on a navy background, I stalked this dress at an outdoor flea market until the girl who was holding it up for inspection had put it back on the rails. Then I took a chance on its size, paid the silly asking price of a couple of € and carried it home to find it was a perfect fit.



I took the lead from both colours in the dress's print for my belt, beaded necklace and vintage flower brooch, all of which were either charity shop or flea market finds. Only the white chunky ring was a retail buy. I tend to snap these up whenever I find them and yes, that's often on the high street! 



While Jos was enjoying a cup of coffee in the on-site cafeteria, I went for a rummage, but the only thing that tickled my fancy was this puff-sleeved knit jumper by retro label Küsten Luder. Isn't it cute though?

On Saturday, we continued our browsing, visiting two charity shops as usual, with a car picnic in between.

As I'm running out of time, I'll show you what I was wearing in my next post, but I can already offer you a peek at my finds.




There was a floaty green, pink and white maxi skirt from Veritas, a Belgian accessories and haberdashery chain which has lately diversified by offering a small selection of clothing.

The off-white dress with its tiny black checks had its origins at H&M, while the lightweight jacket on the top right, its print somewhat reminiscent of the skirt, is by the Belgian Mayerline label.

Both the floral pussy-bow blouse (above, bottom left) and the Crimplene shift dress with its Paisley-esque pattern (below) are somebody's handiwork. The latter has a care home label telling me its previous owner was called Rosa. 



Saturday's final find was a mustard chunky knit cardigan with notched collar and ... pockets.  Somehow, in my mind's eye, I can see Rosa wearing the two together!

Before I go, here's a cartoon Mr. Google supplied me with:





(*)  Yes, I'm a fully paid up member, as I've literally got them all. I've even got the haircut!


36 comments:

  1. you know what? i seem surrounded by highly sensitive people, IRL & online..... incl. BW and myself! most of my friends are artistic humans, even working in artistic jobs.
    that said - i know where you are.
    love your flea market outfit with the long skirt - gorgeous colours too. and the dresses of cause!
    as for the compost - now is the right season to empty some of that bags right onto the beds and under the bushes - next years flowers will thank you - esp. mademoiselle hydrangea :-D
    hugsies! xxxxx

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    1. Thanks Beate! Taking you up on your suggestion to empty some of those bags onto the garden beds! xxx

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  2. The wall and the ongoing work seem to be a nightmare. I hate when things aren't where they are supposed to be.

    Yes, I would bring out the compost. It can easily rot there until spring and you don't have to see those ugly bags.

    Fortunately, you have some nice charity shop finds there.

    Have a nice weekend. You're almost there ...

    Regula

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    1. Thanks you Regula! We cannot use all of the bags right off but will definitely use some of them in the garden! xxx

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  3. Absolutely love your autumnal outfit and the cute little mouse brooch you purchased. I'm also drooling over that retro powder blue knit - love a puff sleeve!
    As for your neighbours, I'm speechless. How can they not have heard of composting? I can see from previous comments that you're likely to put it to good use and at least you can start making plans to paint that wall a colour of your choice. Roll on spring eh?
    You're not alone. I share almost all of the attributes of a highly sensitive person referenced in that cartoon.
    Big hug. xxx

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    1. Thank you Claire! I can't wait to wear that puff sleeved knit. As for the neighbour, he's not a gardener at all, which I suppose explains a lot. But still! xxx

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  4. I can imagine how excited you are about the end of the wall construction site. Of course you need your compost back in the compost bin.
    You're busy doing second hand autumn shopping. You always find wonderful things! 💕
    Have a wonderful weekend! with a very huge hug Tina

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    1. Thank you Tina, the wall is nearly finished now. Phew! xxx

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  5. Haha, yes indeed you even got the haircut. I'm all but one, creative I'm not. I especially hate it when I pick up someone's mood so easily. At first I thought, what a strange brooche...... but it's only the mouse, then its cute. Love the feather dress and the polka dot blouse. And the hot pink! Have a fabulous weekend. Oh yes btw, did the neighbour put that wall in front of a window???? I can't behoeve that he was allowed to do that.

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    1. Thank you Nancy! And yes, picking up people's moods so easily isn't always fun. About the wall, there was a garden wall between our two properties before, so what he did - and was allowed to - is extend his kitchen right up to the division line ... xxx

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  6. I have never heard of HSP - so thank you for that. Every day's a school day! Hope the construction is at an end by now...

    That little mouse brooch is just gorgeous! What a lovely find.

    Loving all the outfits especially the skirts and tops and the lovely accessories. Your charity shop finds were brilliant. I thought the jacket and the skirt was a suit; they look so similar! I loved the knitted puff sleeved top; the H&M dress and the 'Rosa' items.

    I'm so glad 'quality control' passed the pouffe...

    Hope you have a great weekend,
    xxx

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    1. Thanks Vronni! Until about 10 years ago, I hadn't heard about HSP either. When I was first made aware of its existence, it was a revelation as I finally understood what was going on in my own head. xxx

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  7. I also have most of the qualities of an HSP - you are not alone, my dear friend! I feel everything very deeply, to the point that I can shut down when I get overwhelmed. *hug* It is hard to deal with sometimes.

    I love playing catch-up with you, and seeing your lovely outfits (so harmonious) and your purchases. I laughed at Bess "testing" the new ottoman (and loved your note that she was on your lap while you posted - Vizzini says hello, as he often sits on my lap while I type).

    So sorry your neighbour is being so disruptive and oblivious! I am glad you get the wall painted the colour you wish! I would ask for sunny sky blue (maybe a few white clouds in there?) so that whenever you look out, it's a lovely day. Doesn't everyone compost?? We have an under-sink organics bin and a larger bin that we dump that into in our parking lot - no compost for condos, but many homes here have them. I grew up with a ginormous compost that we always had to rake up and spread onto our gardens every spring.

    Have a good weekend, my dear!

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    1. Thank you for the hug, Sheila, I knew you would get it. It's indeed hard to deal with sometimes, but at least now I know what is "wrong" with me ... xxx

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  8. your neighbour is the very definition of an asshole. Never heard of compost (eye roll).
    Enough about him, and let's instead focus on your beautiful outfits. The flea market might not have had much, but your outfit for the day was fab.
    The vintage look jumper really does look like something from the 40s. Can't wait to see what you do with it.

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    1. Goody, is that you? Anyway, thanks! I know, how can he never have heard of composting? xxx

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  9. Like Vronni, I'd never heard of an HSP - that little illustration does look like you! The only trait I have is being enthusiastic and creative, I walked around with a dislocated hip for over twenty-five years and love crowds and cities so I'm probably a psychopath (which has been said before).
    What an annoying neighbour. I'm glad he's agreed to the wall being painted in the colour of your choice, a little compensation at least.
    Bess is such a sweetheart, of course she had to test out the groovy pouffe, she's a groovy cat after all!
    Loving the outfits especially the lovely earthy tones of the maxi skirt and olive green blazer - Autumn personified! I love the knitted top, that's going to look fabulous on, I can't wait to see it incorporated into an outfit. The mouse brooch is adorable, I'm glad you explained the background, i too thought it was one and the same.
    I hope you, Jos and Bess have a peaceful and sunny weekend. xxx

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    1. Thank you Vix, but I can't believe you are a psychopath :-) Whoever says such a thing? The wall is finished for now, it just needs painting in Spring now! xxx

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  10. I always enjoy your weekly round up of both all those clever and colourful outfits and your news. Sorry that neighbour is still proving troublesome.
    The little cat brooch is adorable as it the blue top .
    Thank you for the explantion of HSP . Take care. xxx

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    1. Thank you Jill! Perhaps I'll wear the blue jumper and cat brooch together! xxx

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  11. So many fantastic outfits. Love the pink and green, the pink cardigan really pulls the look together. The polka dot blouse and how cute is the little mouse brooch.

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  12. Oh, I am so glad that you were able to head to the flea market! What a fabulous outfit you wore. The dark florals are perfection! I wonder why the visit felt different than before. This has happened to me as well since COVID. Certain things just don't feel quite the same. Oh, I love your second outfit as well. That pink cardigan is SUCH a stunning piece.

    So sorry to hear about your migraine. I know several people who suffer from them as well and they can be so difficult to manage.

    WOW! I cannot get over how incredible that puff-sleeved sweater is. The print is perfection and I love the colour so much. Obsessed! I swear, you have the best wardrobe ever. I love absolutely everything you wear and everything you find.

    Also, I found myself nodding "yes" to absolutely everything on the HSP picture. It felt all too relatable.

    the creation of beauty is art.

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    1. Thank you Shannon! I'm glad I'm not the only one who finds things different after Covid! xxx

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  13. I'd never heard of HSP, but can understand some of the feelings (even if not having all these qualities myself). Having supportive people around makes a difference!
    Lovely outfit that you wore to pay a visit to the flea market. Looking really fabulous in these autumnal colours with the green jacket!. Also fab in the dark green floral dress with pink accents, such a great colour combo and delightful print!.
    Glad that you found those lovely boots comfy, it's so annoying when back and knees are fussy!
    Love the polka dots blouse with the tweedy skirt, they make a fab combo, classic and joyful colours!
    Your neighbour looks like some of our own ones, who ignore there are four different recycling containers. No comments.
    Love the feathery printed dress and the matchy accessorizing!, rocking it!
    Looking forward to see those new finds 'in action'!
    besos

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    1. Gracias Monica! You're right, having supportive people does make all the difference. And I'm including my blog friends among these! xxx

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  14. I think I'm only a Semi-HSP, as I don't startle easily and I'm not easily overwhelmed. Thanks for sharing that little Google cartoon though, made me think. I love your blog and always take time to read it properly. I adore the little blue jumper, I think it is very you. Keep well. Jean. x

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    1. Thank you so much Jean! You do not have to have all the "symptoms" to be HSP, I'm just one of the unlucky ones who has them all. But it's good to know what they are, as it explains a lot about who I am! xxx

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  15. It's really interesting to me that you wrote about HSP. I just bought a book on this subject as I know I have always fallen under this category and when I realized this I was able to see why I react and feel the way I do to things. The book is written by Elaine Aron and I found it on Amazon. Adorable cartoon!

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    1. Thank you Joni, I will definitely look out for that book. And you are absolutely right, it is good to be able to see why we do certain things! xxx

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  16. Oh dear, I am all those things!!!! Definitely HSP- CBC called me Highly Strung a while back, which I think was rather rude but I am very sensitive. It's hard not to though. I know you too are sensitive.
    Love all your outfits and the feathery dress is beautiful.
    The yellow belt is really pretty too.
    Your first outfit has such lovely textures,
    The pouffe is brilliant- makes me think of Circuses!
    The mouse is very sweet!
    x

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    1. Having met you, I am not at all surprised you are HSP, Kezzie! But that is indeed rather a rude thing for CBC to say. xxx

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  17. Hello Ann, neighbour not heard of compost eh, pfffttt!!! At least there is a wall between you, which IS making progress, and think of the lovely colour you can paint it come spring! A good clothes rumage sounds like the perfect way to rid the week of all its evils. Super glad the lovely pouf met Bess' quality check. Love the blue puff sleeved jumper xXx

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    1. Thank you Lulu and yes, you're right: at least there IS a wall now and apart from the painting it's finished! xxx

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  18. Definitely with you there in the highly sensitive person category! The puff sleeved jumper is an especially nice find!

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    1. Thank you Laura! I can't believe how many of my fellow bloggers are HSP! xxx

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