Monday 9 January 2023

January, sick and tired you've been hanging on me

All was quiet when we got up at our usual time on New Year's Day, yesterday's revellers still tucked up in their beds nursing the inevitable hangovers.

The sun celebrated the day by lingering just that little bit longer before hiding behind the clouds again as she'd been wont to do for days. So, after breakfast, I quickly washed my hair, got dressed and slapped some make-up on, wanting to get the day's outfit done before she changed her mind once more.

At 15°C, it certainly was no hardship going outside in just my dress!



I'd snapped up this vintage pale blue wool-blend shirtwaist dress in the Think Twice sales back in November, and not only was this its first outing, it got the honour of being the main ingredient of this year's first outfit!

Sprinkled with navy, caramel and cream leaves and flowers, I took the lead from the caramel ones for my accessories. These included opaques, a mock croc belt - both retail buys - and an orchid brooch which doubles as a pendant and was a € 2 flea market find in May 2018.

My necklace was a fairly recent charity shop find, while the snoots (a.k.a. snakeskin boots) were snaffled from a vintage per kilo shop at the end of November.



As the sun still didn't show any sign of going into hiding, I then walked into the garden to take stock. 

Much to my delight, the Hellebores I planted in the Autumn of 2020, and which had been a bit of a disappointment both in 2021 and 2022, were proudly bearing several flower buds. They are both of the orientalis variety, called 'White Lady' (top right) and 'Red Lady' (bottom left) respectively. Not very original I must admit.

Oh, and hello there, stone frog and non-ribbeting frog. It's good to see you!

The back of the garden is a bit of a mess, the uncontrolled weeds and drifts of soggy Virginia creeper leaves hiding a multitude of sins. We've dumped some of the former contents of the passageway here, and the bench is groaning under the weight of several pots of wilted or dead annuals and a couple of watering cans. I guess poor, long-suffering Venus has given up and opted to have a lie-down for the duration. As if it wasn't bad enough that she lost her bottom half in a February storm in 2021.

Among the debris, a yellow plastic window box in which I'd put some spent Daffodils after flowering last Spring, allowing them to die down in peace. They do seem to think Spring is around the corner, but surely it's far too early for those new shoots to emerge? 



Admittedly, I was feeling a maudlin, this being the last day of my Christmas break, particularly as it had been a bit of a letdown, both weather and health-wise.

But I seemed to have left the worst of the awful lurgy behind me, even if I still had the odd coughing fit and my energy levels were still under par.

In spite of not having slept particularly well, I was feeling almost back to my old self on Monday, when I reaped the benefits of my mid-week catch up at the office. If only my view hadn't been marred by non-stop rain. Unfortunately the dismal weather didn't put off the hordes of bargain-hunting zombies, as traditionally the first week of January marks the start of the Winter sales here in Belgium.




Tuesday and Wednesday saw the return of my cough and another dip in my energy levels. This wasn't at all helped by a run-in with the landlord of our office building. We are supposed to move back to our office next Friday but, in spite of his promises, there were still a lot of things which hadn't happened yet, including the major job of renewing the electricity, repairing a leak caused by the flooring team and painting the window frames. I'm a force to be reckoned with when I'm angry, and apparently my shouting did help as things finally started to move along again on Thursday, with both the electrician and a team of odd job men showing up.



We even had a brief reprieve from the eternal rain on Thursday, or at least we did until early afternoon.

This allowed me to finally go for a walk during lunch break, my feet automatically taking me into the direction of one of the Think Twice shops which is well away from the main shopping thoroughfare and the crowds of crazy bargain hunters

Think Twice's latest sales had just started and with 30% off everything, I snapped up two bargains myself, the first being this grooviliously patterned vintage shift frock.




This orange, Finnish made pure new wool skirt made the grade as well. I fell head over heels for the slubbed grey and white stripes at the bottom. It's dry clean only, but we'll see about that.



With the week of the move expected to be a full-on one, I took Friday off to build up my strength for the ordeal to come. 

Once again, we woke up to some modicum of sunshine, but according to the weather forecast it wasn't to last. 

My outfit was a repeat of Thursday's, and was built around a pre-blog Think Twice find: a long-sleeved Crimplene dress with a pussy bow and a zip at the front.


It has a kind of trellis pattern in white, against which red-hearted white flowers are growing. If I were to do a Sheila-style flashback on it, I think it would be boring you to death, as I'm always accessorizing it with red. I might change up the cardigan and the belt, which in this case were both charity shopped, but that is it. 


As usual, I was also wearing red opaques, which were rather eclipsed by my red boots, a flea market find in October 2018.

The "lady brooch" was also provided by a flea market, although I can't remember where or when. It needed to be big enough to stand out among the prolific trellis and flowers pattern.



After a week of being cooped up inside, not to mention leaving the house and returning home in the dark, it was time for another peek into the garden. 

The combined forces of the mild weather - the temperature had remained in the low double digits all week - and the neverending rain had led to a veritable growing spurt, so that the promising buds in both varieties of Helleborus orientalis were now opening up to the most exquisite flowers.

The Helleborus niger (bottom left), more commonly known as Christmas Rose, which we brought back from the garden centre in December, and which is living in a pot in the passageway, was also opening the first of its flowers. Even Helleborus sternii, which came home with us at the same time, is showing promise by developing a first bud.




I've often likened Dove Cottage's garden to a jungle, particularly after bouts of neglect, but this time I'm really wondering if after last Summer's nightmare it will ever look like an actual garden again.

The ivy, which we got more or less under control at the start of the pandemic, is now getting more out of hand than ever and will need some serious graft and rigorous pruning to get on top of again. Hidden beneath the tangle in the foreground is my beloved Clematis viticella 'Etoile Violette' as well as our Winter Jasmin (Jasminum nudiflorum). The latter is in its element right now and doesn't seem to mind sharing space with the ivy.



Although its flowering period is supposed to be from January to March, here in our sheltered garden the first of its flowers often appear in November. They refrained from doing so this time around but its stems of cheery, yellow star-like flowers are currently brightening these dark and dismal January days.

I've also detected lots of flowers in our Winter box (Sarcococca, bottom right), and cannot wait for them to fully develop into highly scented ones, an annual event on which their aroma takes centre stage in our garden for a week or so.




We spent Friday afternoon going for our weekly rummage. Whether we found anything will be revealed in my next post, for which I hope you'll join me again.

I'm leaving you now with some words of wisdom from our garden, reminding us that - even in the dullest and darkest of weather - the sun is always shining behind the clouds!

See you next time, come rain or shine ...





40 comments:

  1. I've been a calligrapher for so many years and love collecting quotes and poems, etc...this post today reminds me of this partial poem by D. Malloch

    You have to believe in happiness,
    Or happiness never comes.
    I know that the bird chirps none the less,
    When all that he finds is crumbs.

    You have to believe that winds will blow,
    Believe in the grass, the days of snow,
    Ah, that’s the reason the bird can sing:
    On his darkest day he believes in Spring.

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  2. I love that pale blue colour on you and that pre-blog pussy bow frock is a beauty! The Aroia skirt is nothing short of wonderful, I had one of their wool maxis years ago (I think Sheila's got one of their skirts, too) I can't wait to see you styling it up.
    I can't imagine you shouting at the landlord but good for you, I'm glad it did the trick.
    Your weather looks as dismal as ours. I'm impressed with how lovely your garden is looking, ours is atrocious but I did spy some green shoots so hopefully the daffs aren't too far away. xxx

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    1. Thank you Vix! Most people can't imagine me shouting, but believe me, it's quite scary when I do :-) xxx

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  3. Love that first outfit. What a wonderful (and stylish) way to start the new year. The accessories are fabulous, especially the necklace. What a great piece! I'm so sorry that your Christmas break was a letdown because of the weather and being sick. Oh wow, I am sorry to hear that things at your office building are so difficult right now. I'm glad you were able to stick up for yourself and make sure things were getting done! You are a force! Ooh that "lady brooch" is so beautiful. I just love it. The way you ended this post is so beautiful. Thank you for that reminder!

    the creation of beauty is art.

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  4. Ooh, you found an Arola skirt!! As Vix pointed out, I have one of their maxi skirts (this one: https://sheilaephemera.blogspot.com/2022/02/mom-day-adventure-willows-beach.html) and one of their capes (here, over the first outfit: https://sheilaephemera.blogspot.com/2022/10/bigass-weekend-wrap-up-black-and-white.html). Be careful washing - if that's an acetate lining, it could be destroyed in water. I've read that freezing a garment and then steaming/ironing it is the best way to get rid of any icky bugs/moths.

    I can imagine you shouting at the landlord, as that's exactly the kind of crap I have to deal with here too! When people like us (friendly but quiet) get mad, you'd better look out!

    Thank you for the shout-out! There are certain items I've never Flashbacked because of that very "issue" - I never vary how I wear them! Ha!

    I'm so glad you got out for a wander away from the sales crowds, Ann. Here's to a year ahead of good times, found treasures and peace and quiet. I love your photo space in your passageway. Good luck with the garden!

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    1. I'm loving both of your Arola garments, and now you've found another skirts as well! xxx

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  5. I love the skirt, it's fabulous. The dress/tunic in the groovy pattern is pretty grand too. What a great shops you have in Antwerp.

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    1. Thanks Carole, and I guess we are rather spoiled here in Antwerp! xxx

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  6. I watched a special edition of Gardeners' World the other night, filmed in Venice. They visited an old garden in the middle of Venice which had largely been left alone - only certain parts were carefully and sympathetically tended. There was a stone statue lying on its side and the intention was to leave it as it was. Monty was horrified, but your Venus has obviously heard the news that all the cool gardens have a fallen statue.
    As for your daffs, I'm pretty sure we had snowdrops appearing on 1st January last year, which was unheard of. But then summer was late arriving which was weird.
    Glad you're finally free of that virus (you look back to your perky self in your outfit photos) and are hopefully getting things moving on the office front. Oh and I love the Finnish wool skirt. Very unusual. xxx

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    1. Thank you Claire! I'm glad my Venus heard the news, even if Monty hasn't (yet) ... xxx

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  7. haha - you´r a *crazy bargain hunter* yourself - atleast the clothes are vintage ;-P
    helleborous take 2-5 years to flower after newly planted - so your´s are in the time schedule... but you should have planted the daffs twice their size deep in autumn - they need the darkness over winter to develop flowers again.
    your hair looks great - the longer "bubikopf" suits you!
    stay warm and cozy! xxxx

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    1. I know, but second hand doesn't count in my book :-) Good to hear my Hellebores are on schedule! xxx P.S. "Bubikopf" :-)

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  8. Heerlijk dat er al weer van alles te zien is in de tuin! Heel normaal, die scheuten van de narcissen!! Is elk jaar zo!! Je hebt weer leuke kleding gescoord!!

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  9. You can either focus on the rain or the sunny spells. They may be short though ... ;-) Changing weather all month long here too. Keep your ears stiff! :-)

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  10. I love that skirt you got! I'm glad you are slowly feeling better, and that as well as working hard you were able to do a little shopping at lunch to pick up your treasures! I like your first outfit, although in such cold temperatures I'd have a few more layers on, haha!

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    1. Thank you Mica! I can imagine such temperatures being a shock to the system for you, though! xxx

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  11. It's lovely to see sign of renewal in the garden again. My hellebore has no buds as yet but I live in hope. I need a decent day to get out in the garden and cut back lots of things that I didn't do in the late autumn. I wish you luck with your pruning!

    Great charity shop finds and I loved your new blue dress. And as for the black, white and red outfit that was marvellous. I loved it all especially the red boots. I think you are the luckiest person for finding amazing boots.

    Glad to hear you are feeling better.
    xxx

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    1. Thank you Vronni, and I too need a decent day to catch up with all the work in the garden! xxx

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  12. How great is this red Arola skirt! 💕 I can‘t wait to see you wearing it. The weather here is also grey and rainy, every day but mild.
    Have a good time Ann. With a huge hug Tina

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  13. Sorry to hear you've been a bit off colour. You can't move over here for folk with hacking coughs. I'm desperately trying to avoid catching anything, especially as I have a rather wonderful trip booked. That pussy bow dress and red cardi combo is a knockout, you look fab in it. Keep your chin up.

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    1. Thank you Jean! Would that be your trip to see the Northern lights? xxx

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  14. Good on you for letting the landlord have it. You've all been inconvenienced enough from the sound of it.
    That's a beautiful skirt you found. I like your attitude to Dry Clean Only. Most things can be handled at home, if you're very careful about it.
    Take care, and I hope that lingering lurgy goes away soon. Good luck with the office move.

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    1. Thanks Goody! I do think I've scared the landlord for life, as he's clearly doing everything to avoid me :-) xxx

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  15. 15 C. Well, that's practically Spring. I love the dress you wore on its own on such a fine day. Here the weather has been mixed, not sure what to make of it.

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    1. The weather's definitely been strange lately! xxx

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  16. This time of year can be quite difficult. Sometime we just need to rest and adjust.

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    1. I know, but at least we're on our way to Spring! xxx

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  17. Your orchid brooch must be a preserved orchid, it looks just like the ones in that domed frame I found!

    I love the garden frogs! Hope you are feeling better now!

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  18. Corr blimey, I wouldn't like to knock your pint over Ann. Not after hearing how you dealt with the landlord ;) Glad the office works are back on track and fingers crossed it won't drag out too much.

    Oooh, your hellebores and winter jasmin are gorgeous. 'Jungle chic' I think the new garden look is ;) and very romantic too with a toppled Venus. My garden is currently looking like one giant compost heap :0

    Don't you just love it when charity shops have sales. The Finnish wool skirt is super xXx

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    1. If jungle chic is the new garden look, Dove Cottage's little plot definitely is "on trend" ;-) xxx

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  19. Glad to hear that you're feeling better, even if that cough is resisting (lots of coughing here too!)
    Love your shirtwaist dress with those caramel-coloured accessories standing out on the blue background. And admiring particularly the groovilicious dress and the red wool skirt you found at Think Twice, those are fabulous pieces!
    Loving your crimplene dress, its geometric-floral motive is so cute, and it has a bow!, no wonder you've accessorized it frequently with red, as it looks fab! (and it's a favourite colour combo of mine!).
    As Vix commented, I can't imagine you shouting at the landlord!, but the kindest people show usually a strong character when necessary (and surprise inattentive landlords!) ;DD
    besos

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    1. Thank you Monica, and yes, I guess you're right. I'm generally kind, but if you cross the line one time too often there is hell to pay ;-) xxx

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  20. I love the Think Twice bargain dress it is so very you. I did chuckle at you saying you shouted at your Landlord at work. You remind me of myself. It takes an awful lot for me to lose my temper but when I do I can scare myself! Well done you for getting the work moving again. xx

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    1. Thanks Gisela, and yes, I'm definitely like that too! xxx

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