Thursday, 20 February 2025

So tired (of waiting)

For once, I'm counting my blessings that my blog is forever lagging behind the times and I've got a small stash of outfits and outings to fall back on it. If I hadn't, my blog would soon be coming to a grinding halt. What with the chronic lack of decent weather and our current self-isolating regime, nothing much of note has been happening in our lives lately. Plus, we are both tired. Tired of this waiting game which is putting our lives on hold, which in its turn, and combined with the continuing under-par weather, is making us physically tired and inclined to spend far too much time practising a bit of shut-eye on the sofa.

But enough already, as I'm sure you haven't come here to listen to my moaning. So, without further ado, let's have a dip in that stash of outfits and outings. Or, in this case: outing, singular!


February went off to a promising start by treating us to a sunny day on Saturday the 1st. After a frosty start, it eventually warmed up to around 6°C, making it the kind of day which was just begging us to go for a walk. 

Before we go though, why don't we step outside into the passageway and have a look at my outfit? Careful, though, as we're being watched ... the eagle-eyed among you might have noticed the feline photobomber casting a critical eye on proceedings from her perch on top of her scratching post. 



My blog tells me that this heavy-weight knit polyester dress was a charity shop find in October 2019.  In spite of its pinkish overall look, its pattern is actually red and white stripes and chevrons, with a tiny bit of grey thrown in the weave. 

I was wearing the wooden, flower painted brooch pinned to its bodice but it was mostly hidden beneath my sage green fluffy cardigan. It's from the Antwerp based fashion label Thelma & Louise but found its way into my wardrobe via the charity shops. The knitted flower corsage I enhanced it with was an old retail buy, as were both the green stretchy belt with its faux tortoiseshell buckle and the green beaded necklace.



The afternoon's outing took us to Middelheim once more. Spanning an impressive 30 hectares, with six different zones and no less than nine entrances to choose from, there's more than enough variation on offer to cater for frequent visits.

This time, we parked on the large car park near one of the entrances to Middelheim-Laag, the northern side of the park, taking in some of the familiar sculptures who live in the Human Nature zone. 

This part of the park also incorporates the formal Hortiflora, a former show garden where hedges, paths and lawns structured the landscape. Here, one of the tiny round ponds still bore its layer of ice provided by the overnight frost, trapping the leaves which had been swept into it by the ever-present wind.




We'd hardly walked through the gate when my eyes were drawn to a flash of yellow in the distance. Could it the Witch Hazel (Hammamelis) we first spotted here back in 2023? Tiptoeing closer, we saw that it was, and that we were weren't the only ones who were mesmerized by the sight of the shrub's spidery yellow, red-hearted flowers. A welcome sight indeed on a Winter's day.

I took my time taking photos, when I was joined by one of the park wardens, who helpfully pointed out the red-flowered variety in the back. It was too far away for a close-up, and as I wasn't allowed to step into the flower bed I was only able to admire it from afar.

The Mahonia on the bottom left was one of the other early flowering shrubs, proudly displaying its spiky blooms.



Instead of making our usual circuit of this part of the sculpture park, we walked right out of it by way of one of the other entrances and crossed the cobbled avenue running between Middelheim and its neighbouring park, Vogelzang. They are both part of the same cluster of parks collectively and delightfully called Nachtegalenpark (transl. Nightingale Park). 

Just before the avenue, we spotted the artwork on the bottom right. It hadn't been completely installed yet and was cordoned off by unsightly red and white tape, so that I was obliged to cut off its bottom part in my photo. It's called Tower of Silence (dating from 1960-63) and it's by the Chilean sculptor Marta Covin (1907-1995).

In 1952 Marta met Henry Moore, who encouraged her to look to the beauty of Chile and its rich heritage, which made her move away from a realistic approach to an abstract art of great expressive force. Her work was characterized by its commitment to American indigenous pre-Columbian cultures. 



We hadn't been to Vogelzang for a mind-boggling two years. This is actually the oldest of the cluster of parks which, apart from Middelheim, also comprises Den Brandt. There used to be a small castle here as early as 1457, but it was not until the 17th century that a park estate was added. The current park, laid out in typical English landscape style, dates from 1850, offering an alternation of sweeping lawns and parkland. 

The majestic old trees lining this path must be from that era. Looking up, their canopies seemed almost to be touching the sky.




I was wearing a different coat for once, but unfortunately we forgot to make photos of my outerwear. Generally not a fan of Desigual, this coat nevertheless ticked all my boxes when I met it in a charity shop in March 2023. I'm shamelessly repeating the collage I posted at the time ...




We circuited the whale-shaped pond which is the park's focal point, then crossed it by way of a decorative white painted cast iron bridge. The latter's almost perfect reflection in the pond was slightly marred by the presence of a cormorant patiently waiting for its order of food.


Steering clear of the ever-popular children's playground at the heart of the park, we made our way back to Middelheim-Laag. 

Obviously, I couldn't possibly leave without trying to hitch a ride in Welsh artist Richard Deacon's spaceship called Never Mind.  Sadly, no seats were available that day. Oh well, never mind!



And look what we have here! It's Henry Moore's (1898-1986) King and Queen! Dating from 1952, the year he met and inspired Marta Covin, it was first exhibited at the Second Biennial for Sculpture at Middelheim Park in 1953 and was subsequently bought by the city of Antwerp for the museum. 

The sculpture was positively gleaming in the sunshine, looking as if it was recently polished.




Next day's weather (we were Sunday 2 February by now) was almost a carbon copy of Saturday's.

The household chores we'd been putting off were awaiting, so the morning was spent cleaning, while in the afternoon we drove down to the garden centre for bird food to feed the hungry masses flocking to the junkyard jungle.



I've nothing to show you but my outfit. The grey and pink floral velvet skirt was a charity shop find in February 2021. It's perfect in every way, as it even has pockets, my only gripe being that they're quite tiny!

I'm almost repeating its companions on its first outing four years ago when I wore it with the same green polo neck, one of my stretchy zig-zag belts and a1960s style silver tone necklace.

The brooch I was wearing is a different one, though, incidentally also charity shopped in February 2021. This heavy silver plated one by Sidney Carron, a contemporary Paris jeweller, set me back the princely sum of € 1,50.




I'm the first to admit I've been a bit remiss in visiting your blogs but I promise I'll be mending my ways soon. 

I just blame it on being 




I knew this pin would one day come in handy when I handed over € 0,10 for it on a flea market!

See you soon!



18 comments:

  1. I hope that you are able to get out and about again soon. Sunny weather at this time of year makes it all so much better doesn't it. Arilx

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  2. sorry that you feel so miserable.
    i could have send you a week of bright sunshine but with -12°C in tow.... and you would moan again ;-D
    the red striped dress looks very cosy!
    hugs!! xxx

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  3. You're doing the right thing by isolating and taking things easy but it must be so frustrating, it's a miserable time of year at the best of times.
    Middelheim is always a delight, I love the Henry Moore, its almost alien-like!
    The chevron dress and the fuzzy gilet with midi skirt are great outfits and the So Tired brooch made me smile. xxx

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  4. That coat is beautiful

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  5. I'm so very sorry to read that the 2 of you are not feeling very energetic! It's time we see more sun! That said, I've enjoyed the sun today for 1,5 hour. I'm not a fan of Desigual either, once did have the most gorgeous grey dress though, but that coat is really another story! Love it a lot. I'm sending over some sunshine to you now, so that you can enjoy a bit of vitamine d! Till next time!

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  6. Well, the weather here has suddenly warmed up! 14 degrees yesterday and 16 degrees today and I was too hot wearing a coat on my morning dog walk!!

    Loved the Henry Moore sculpture - what fantastic parks you have in Antwerp. Fabulous outfits. Hope you feel back to normal soon...
    xxx

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  7. It is so hard when you are sort of in limbo...waiting, waiting, and waiting some more. Of course that would be exhausting. I'm so sorry that things have been difficult over the last several months. I hope things will continue to get better. You seem like such a lovely, kind, and creative person. You and your loved ones deserve the absolute best. Always. <3

    You have such beautiful accessories. I always love seeing what you will pair with your gorgeous outfits! Your pictures from the park are so beautiful. I'm glad you were able to take time enjoying the scenery and taking photos. Those old trees are massive! Wow! How incredible to spend time in such a remarkable place with so much history. The sculptures are fantastic as well.

    the creation of beauty is art.

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  8. I love your charity shop finds and I ADORE that "So Tired" pin, it's so me! :D

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  9. Oh, my lovely, I'm sorry to hear your life is so in limbo despite it being for a very good cause. I like both outfits muchly, esp Sunday and that Designual coat is gawjus!!! Sending you big hugs!!! Xx

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  10. I really hear you on the uninspiring weather we're having at the moment. It doesn't make you want to venture anywhere. It always amazes me how many beautiful open spaces you have there, with sculptures too. Fabulous. I love the designated coat and had a little chuckle about Thelma and Louise xx

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  11. Sending lots of sunshine and a hug your way.

    The Desigual coat is very pretty. The fluffy cardigan from the first outfit is perfect for this time of year. :)
    xoxox

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  12. Sorry that you feel so tired, totally understand that feeling when waiting and so unfair to be isolated when some social life could cheer you up. Moaning is the right thing to do, dear Anne!.
    Thanks for sharing some delightful pics of your walks, those sculptures and the earlier blooms.
    Also lovely outfits!. That knit dress with the fluffy cardigan make a totally weather appropriate ensemble in such a lovely colour combo, love that Red knit texture!. That Desigual coat is so Fabulous!.
    And you look lovely in your velvet skirt and furry vest, some interesting textures again, and fabulous accessorizing!. Love that 60's mood.
    That pin has put a smile on my face!. Sending love and hugs!
    besos & abrazos

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  13. Being tired is understandable. I hope your husband feels better. I'm so sorry to hear about his health problems. I know this must be so hard on you. I'm sure that isolating doesn't help, but if it is for health, I guess it must be done. Sometimes it helps to look back on brighter moments- and revise memories through photographs....and these are some lovely photographs. Thank you for sharing them with us.
    I love that pointy collar dress so much. It suits you so well and I love how you styled it.
    Beautiful outing as well...that park is stunning and the sculptures are both gorgeous and fascinating.
    Take care dear Ann!

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  14. It sounds like you’re in a bit of a waiting game, but it’s great that you’re still able to pull from your stash of outfits and outings for your blog! I can relate to the frustration of feeling stuck during times of self-isolation and dreary weather.

    Your outing to Middelheim sounds lovely, especially with that glimpse of spring from the blooming Witch Hazel! I love how you detail your outfit and its history—there's something so special about wearing pieces with a story behind them, especially from charity shops. The way you describe your surroundings and the art adds a lovely touch to the experience, making me feel like I’m right there with you.

    It’s understandable that sometimes life gets in the way of blog visits, but I’m sure your readers appreciate your thoughtful updates whenever you can share. Thanks for bringing us along on your adventure!

    New post.

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  15. I understand that it is not easy for you. It will soon be that time and then things will get better and spring will come.😉
    The photos are great, how big is this tree! You can see it clearly because you are standing in front of it.
    a huge hug Tina

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  16. Sorry to hear your weather is so dreary.. spring is just around the corner. Lovely photos. I like the sculptures. You pink and gray outfit is my fav.

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  17. I love your wonderful outfits, right down to the details. The Thelma and Louise tag took me aback - I guess that is a modern-ish dress! Your trips to Middleheim are always full of such gorgeous pictures, Ann. I love the sculptures so much. Your Desigual coat had me gasping! What a beauty, and not at all like the mish-mash of colours/fabrics they often are.
    Your pendant and brooch definitely have that 1970s Brutalist vibe!
    I laughed out loud at Bess photo-bombing you, and had to go back and look again!
    I'm so sorry that your days have just been in limbo, Ann. Hang in there. <3

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