Sunday, 25 January 2026

A little update

 Although I won't be returning to blogland just yet, I thought I'd drop in and give you an update on how Jos is doing.

But first things first. I would like to thank those of you who left such heartwarming comments on my previous post and those of you who kindly checked in with me through private messages.



After having spent 3 weeks in hospital during which he had surgery, Jos was finally allowed to come home last Wednesday. He's still got a way to go before he'll be back on his feet so we're taking it day by day, cherishing every step into the right direction.


Time has been unhurried but relentless, and it's truly mind-boggling that most of January has come and gone while we've been living this half-life which feels light years away from the one we used to live before our world came tumbling down.



Thankfully I had the pleasure of Bess's company while Jos was in hospital. 

She insisted on sleeping with me all night demanding cuddles and purring loudly whenever she thought I was awake. And I definitely lay awake worrying most nights, particularly during those first couple of weeks.


Obviously no outfit photos were taken - unless you count the one of me wearing pyjamas - although I promise you I did manage to dress up on most days, even if I did accessorize only sparingly and my make-up routine went out of the window.



The photos accompanying this post were taken in our back garden during the cold snap we had a couple of weeks ago or while running errands in our village.



Meanwhile, and much to Bess's joy, it's the return of the hospital bed ...

I'm desperately missing my blogging friends so I'm hoping to return soon. After all, there's still that December backlog to catch up on.



27 comments:

  1. Oh Ann I've been behind on my reading and just seen your 2 posts. I'm so sorry to hear Jos has been poorly, I can only imagine how hard it has been for you and I'm so glad you have had Bess to come home too. I'm delighted to hear Jos is now back home. A big hug to you and a gentle one to him and wishing him a steady recovery. xx

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  2. It's good to hear from you. It's great news that Jos is out of the hospital and home.
    Bess is an excellent companion. She did everything right.

    I wish Jos all the best for his recovery.

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  3. My dear girl you and Jos have been much in my thoughts. I haven't wanted to intrude, so I'm very glad to read this update. I do so hope being home speeds his recovery, he is surrounded by love, so I know it will.

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  4. My dear friend 🧡 I have missed you. 😢
    Thanks for sharing this update.
    I have been thinking of you 🤗 and am happy to hear that Bess has kept you company during this difficult time.
    Your photos are beautiful. You are such a lovely person and I will continue to keep you in my prayers.
    I am glad that Jos is back home 🏡 from the hospital.
    Sending you warm hugs 🫂 and much love.

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  5. Wishing Jos a speedy recovery and a return to good health. I have been thinking of you and worried when your absence was quite long. I hope things soon get better and that you both can enjoy some good times. Spring is weeks away and I hope he will be better and able to enjoy some milder weather. Take care of yourself too Ann. Carole R

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  6. cats are the best :-D
    so good to hear from you and even better that jos is at home already! i was worried what happened because of the long silence..... sending all my health wishes to jos and tons of hugs to you both! xxx

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  7. And we're all missing you, your outfits and your lovely adventures!
    I'm so glad that Jos is home and that Bess has been looking after you.
    Wishing Jos a speedy recovery and hoping 2026 starts improving for you both. xxx

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  8. Totally agree with previous comments, We're Missing You!!
    Dear lady, I totally understand that you've been so worried and feeling that time does not work as usual (been there). So lovely that Bess has been with you, she's so cute!.
    Glad that Jos is back at home, and wishing him a speedy recovery, also sending hugs for you and kitty kisses for Bess!
    besos & abrazos

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  9. I was just thinking of you earlier today, missing you and wondering how things were when you’re blog post popped up. Sending you lots of positive wishes and I hope Jos gets well soon. Take care xxx

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  10. I am so glad to hear that Jos is home again. I've been checking and saying a prayer for you both. I hope he will recover well and that you will soon be able to enjoy some outings together when the spring weather comes.
    Much love from me.

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  11. Dearest Ann, it's lovely to hear from you. I wish Jos a speedy recovery from the bottom of my heart and hope you both have a wonderful time together again. Yes, it's good that Bess is with you.

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  12. I'm so glad to hear that Jos is making good progress. The poor man has been through such a lot, and so have you.
    Bless Bess! Animals know when their people need extra attention. Keep well.

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  13. I am glad to hear that things are improving for you both, but I completely understand about your worry and that half life feeling. Love to both of you. Arilx

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  14. Quite happy to hear this news! I’m very glad for all three of you! Best of health to you all :-)
    ReaderRita

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  15. I aways read but rarely comment
    You and Jos have been much in my thoughts
    I know that there is a ways to go , but hoping you can at least breathe a little easier now he is home - even if the wretched hospital bed had to join him
    Enjoy your healing cuddles with Bess
    Siobhan

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  16. So good to hear that Jos has been allowed to come home.. what a relief it must be. Sending loads of prayers, positive thought and warm hugs Jos and your way. Hang in there my friend.

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  17. What a ordeal you both had to go through. And still, rehabilitation takes a while. But at least Jos is home and Bess is happy again I assume. I really hope that this year will be a,, normal,, one for both of you. No hospital overstay and all that. I wish you both lots of strength, happiness and luck!

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  18. I'm so glad that Jos is well enough to come home, and really hope that 2026 improves for both of you from here. January really has been rotten this year. It's good to see Nurse Bess taking her responsibilities seriously.

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  19. Good to hear Jos is back home and recuperating.
    -Goody

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  20. Thank you for the update Ann , you and Jos have been in my thoughts. So pleased Jos is now home and on that slow road to recovery. Glad Bess was such a wonderful companion.

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  21. Thank God you have sweet Bess to keep you company! I pray Jos is improving daily! Wish I was there to help you...
    Rest when you can!
    Stay warm!
    hugs & prayer
    Donna

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  22. Dear friend, I am stopping by to let you know how much I care and that you are in my thoughts.

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  23. Hearing that Jos is back home and making progress, even if it's one step at a time, is so heartening.

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  24. I‘m glad to hear that Josh is better. I‘ve missed you but hsve hay some troubles myself. Make-up is not really important when we deal with essential basics of life. All the best!

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  25. I'm happy to know that Joss was well enough to be sent home and that Bess has been there to raise your spirits. Emily

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  26. What a relief to see a post from you. I am so glad that Jos is finally back home. I am praying that he will be feeling much better soon. 2026 needs to be wonderful from this point on, because both you and Jos deserve so much more than a half-life. Sending you all the love <3

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